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Collect messages for a birthday

A 60th, a 70th, an 80th: some birthdays deserve more than a cake and a hastily signed card. You'd love the children, the grandchildren, the cousin in Gaspé and the lifelong friends to each write a few lines — and for it all to arrive together, at the right moment.

The challenge isn't willingness — it's logistics. Chasing twenty people by text, copy-pasting messages received on three platforms, keeping the secret until the party… That's exactly what a collective page solves.

Why a collective page beats an email chain

When wishes arrive by email, by text and in person, someone has to gather them all — and some always go missing. With a collective page, everyone writes directly in the same place, from their phone or computer, whenever it suits them. The shy ones take their time, and latecomers just get the link again as a reminder.

And since the guest of honour doesn't have the page's link, they suspect nothing: on party day, you hand over all the messages at once. Read aloud at dinner or discovered privately the next morning, the effect is the same — bring tissues.

Gather the wishes in three steps

  1. Create the birthday page

    Give it a title — "Louise's 70th" — and you're off. No account to create, for you or anyone else.

  2. Share the contribution link

    Send it to family and friends by email or in the family group chat. Everyone adds their message; the page stays invisible to the guest of honour.

  3. Give the page on the big day

    At the party, share the reading link: every message, gathered on one beautiful page to reread for years.

Frequently asked questions

My aunt isn't comfortable with technology. Will she manage?

Yes: she opens the link, writes her message, presses send. No account, no password, no app to install.

Could the guest of honour stumble onto the page?

No. The page is only reachable through its secret links, and the reading link only goes out when you decide.

How much does it cost?

It's free for a small group. For a big family, a one-time unlock of CAD $7.99 is all it takes — no subscription.

Bons Mots was built for exactly this: a collective page of wishes, ready in two minutes.

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